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The Human Factor

Sunday, December 16th, 2007

You know, we spend a lot of time focusing on the bad things that happen on a daily basis. Lets face it, we perceive the bad to loom over the daily good that happens to us. I myself am no different. I was just explaining to my wife the current woes that I have at work. She inquired what brought on that exchange, because normally I try not to discuss work at home. However, I had to explain on this occasion that I find myself in a no win situation at work. It is to the point where I find myself dreaming, or should say having a nightmare, about the existing state of things for me at work. That in itself is yet another story.

Why am I telling you all of this? Well, it is to illustrate that the bad that occurs in life usually has a front-row seat in our lives. How often have you found yourself discussing what I would call a “feel good” story of human triumph? Because it is this human triumph and hope that I believe that keeps us going each day. It is knowing that each day we can possibly overcome any obstacles that present themselves to us each and every day. Each day is presented as a challenge, and no goal is too lofty.

Well, I am going to end my post here with an example of what I mean. This is a story about a gentleman who sells mobile phones during the day, and has a dream of singing opera. My human factor wants to believe this gentleman is exactly that…a gentleman. My factor also wants to believe he is a deserving humble individual as well. My human factor wants this gentleman to succeed because I need to believe that I too have a chance to do what I love. To him I say, “Bravo!”

Cheers!

What?

Saturday, November 10th, 2007

I believe what is a very philosophical question.  It is quite flexible in its meaning and use.  I bet right now you are saying, “What?”

Cheers! 

Pumpkin Picking!

Saturday, September 29th, 2007

Jumbo Banner

We hand another outing today. We have been trying to do some activity as a Family every Saturday. Today’s adventure took us pumpkin picking at a place called Jumbos. I thought this was really neat. There was a pony ride, face painting, and petting farm for the small one. There was also a corn maze which we did not do due to how big it was, and the age of the small one. :) Then finally there was pumpkin picking. It was really a fun time. We will probably visit some other pumpkin patches, but I feel a family tradition coming on.

Cheers!

How bad are things?

Thursday, September 6th, 2007

Things are so bad at work that:

  • That I when I leave work, I really leave work. I refuse to work at home now.
  • I become ambivalent by the end of day. Nothing matters at that point.
  • The job is really a job now.
  • I have more things to do with no time to do them, and no resources do them with.
  • Not that anyone cared in the first place, but no one cares even more.

The thing that concerns me more is that it is the customers who are impacted by this low moral. Everyone thinks twice before going that extra, if they go that extra mile. Enough said…

Cheers!

Screwed by the workplace yet again!

Sunday, August 12th, 2007

Well, we have been reorganized again at work. I have gone through so many at this time that I have lost count. Prior to the reorganization, I made an effort to go and see my higher up supervisor. The purpose of my visit was to express my opinion of where I would be most useful in the organization. I made a modest request that if I was not able to be remain on the development team that I would be placed back into the customer advocacy section. Well, my reqeust was denied and I was placed in sustainment. They indicated that I would still be doing development, but would be taking on more. They also indicated that I was critical to the sustainment efforts due to my overall knowledge of the environment and the pieces of the various applications.

What I failed to mention is that I sent an email message to my supervisor a while ago when he asked everyone where they would potentially like to be. I expressed the same request back then that I did now. I have sacrificed a lot for current place I work for. What that tells me is that my efforts are not appreciated by the place that I work at, nor by the people who I work for.

What this has done is ensure I will never be late going home again, no more late hours, and plenty of saying “No, that is not my responsiblity.” I am also not training the new person who came on board and now heads the development team. I can talk about working in conjuction and working closely all they want. It is not happening. They made the choice so they can teach him. I will also be asking for a raise since they acknowledged how important that I am and that I would be taking on yet even more.

Cheers!

Universal Studios on Mother’s Day

Wednesday, July 4th, 2007

Emerils Restaurant Outside at Universal StudiosEmerils Restaurant Inside at Universal Studios

Okay, I know I have not written a post in a while. That is because I am trying to tie up loose ends on the two big projects I am working. They are close and I am quite proud of them. :) More importantly, they got done. Those applications were basically willed into being…my will that is. :) The interesting part is that everyone wants to use them now! They people are happy they are there. However as we all know in the IT world, the paper work is usually slower than the application. :) Oh well enough about work.

I did want to share a little bit about some time I tried to take off right before the rollouts of the software. However, as you have probably already guessed I spent most of the time working. Anyway… My wife and I wanted to do something really special for my Mom on Mother’s Day. Of course my wife would reap the same benefits. :) On with the story…it turns out my Mom is a big Emerils fan. So since we were going to the happiest place on earth (will be in a later post :)…guess you will have to come back to see what that is about! :)), we decided to take her to Emerils restaurant. I believe she was excited and enjoyed it. :) There was a hefty check considering all of the people in our party, but it was worth it to see the happiness in my Mom’s eyes. By the way, I believe my Daddy enjoyed it too. ;)

Imus

Friday, April 13th, 2007

Wow. Is all I can say. I intended to write about this a couple of days ago. However, time would not permit. I do believe Imus crossed the line. He said two things that should never be said to any woman if you want to keep living. :) However, I guess it is still yet another reflection of one of society’s many facades. What do you think about the Imus comments?

I have included a link to the Rutger’s coach’s response to Imus’s apology.